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☆ The 9 types of unhealthy friendships — and when to leave each one
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-06 | by ( Julia Pugachevsky | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +7 min

Author Danielle Bayard Jackson shared 9 types of "bad" friends — and how to deal with each one. download the app Email address Sign up By clicking “Sign Up”, you accept our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy . AdvertisementIn her forthcoming book "Fighting for Our Friendships" (out on May 7), Jackson discusses nine types of "bad" female friends she's heard her coaching clients complain about. The non-reciprocal friendThis friend makes you feel like you're in a one-sided relationship. Jackson said it's a good idea to leave if the friend consistently makes you feel like a social placeholder during their single seasons.

Persons: Danielle Bayard Jackson, —, it's, Jackson, she's, you've, they're Organizations: Service

[laufey, "misty"]archived recording (laufey) (SINGING) Look at me I’m as hopeless as a kittenanna martinShe got her start in the most Gen Z way possible — on TikTok. [laufey, "falling behind"]archived recording (laufey) (SINGING) Everybody’s falling in love And I’m falling behindanna martinToday, Laufey reads an essay called “An Anxious Person Tries to Be Chill,” by Coco Mellors. And so, I think that’s kind of what we’re always itching for, that sense of love, even though it’s not really love. laufeyWell, the first love song I wrote, called “Best Friend.” I’d never been in love before, and I wanted to write a love song. archived recording (laufey) [SCATTING]: You’re my best friend in the world [MUSIC PLAYING]anna martinNext week, I talk with model and writer Emily Ratajkowski.

Persons: anna martin, ” I’m Anna Martin, Laufey, anna martin She, ”, you’re, Everybody’s, Coco Mellors, won’t, anna martin Laufey, you’ve, Matt Haig, Madeline Miller, It’s, laufey, it’s, Paul Newman, ’, ‘, didn’t, Henry, ’ Henry didn’t, I’d, I’m, ’ Henry, anna martin Man, —, Laufey’s, ghosting, Coco Mellor’s, avoidant, I’ve, Boston, Let’s, hadn’t, Coco, she’s, he’s, anna martin Right, that’s, anna martin I, We’ll, ” I’d, ” anna martin Aw, Emily Ratajkowski, Emily’s, emily ratajkowski Organizations: The New York Times, Gay, Boston Locations: TikTok, West, Central, ‘, Los Angeles, —, Boston, It’s, what’s

☆ If you use these 4 phrases regularly, you’re more likely to form healthy relationships than most, says psychologist
▼ + stars: | 2024-04-16 | by ( Judy Ho | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +7 min

I like to call them "Connected Explorers." I've found in my research and professional experience that "Connected Explorers" tend to embody four phrases. They regularly tell themselves:'I believe in and like myself'The securely attached tend to have a strong sense of self, and higher self-esteem, than those who are insecurely attached. They're more likely to have consistently positive feelings about themselves, their abilities, and their perception of acceptance by others. Connected Explorers understand where they end and others begin, and in the case of more intimate or romantic relationships, where the "we" begins, without becoming subsumed.

Persons: It's, I've, They're, they'll, Judy Ho Organizations: Pepperdine University, CNBC Locations: U.S

☆ What to do if you don’t want sex at the same time as your partner
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-29 | by ( Ian Kerner | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +8 min

If you’re not having sex like porn stars, you’re not having good sex. One of the most pernicious myths is that sexual desire is “an electric spark of wanting” that happens naturally and instantaneously. There’s no such thing as normal when it comes to sex, and there’s more than one way of experiencing sexual desire. Even though I’m reading and writing and thinking and talking about sex all the time, I end up with no interest in actually having sex. When you talk to people who have great sex lives, they don’t talk about desire.

Persons: Ian Kerner, ”, you’re, Emily Nagoski, can’t, Nagoski, Kerner, Donald Hall, “ Organizations: CNN, ” CNN

☆ TEDx Talk host who spent 10 years interviewing experts on love: 5 ways to get unstuck from an intense crush and save your relationships
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-11 | by ( Amanda Mccracken | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +4 min

I would waste time and energy fantasizing about relationships with men who I inexplicably found flawless, but in reality were emotionally or physically unavailable. I've spent 10 years interviewing experts on longing, as well as people who've experienced limerence, for my podcast The Longing Lab, TEDx talk, and forthcoming book, "When Longing Becomes Your Lover." The emotional reward was the happy hormone dopamine I'd feel from imagining a relationship together or anticipating a response. Writing it down helped me believe it — and recognize my limerent feelings toward unavailable men as a dead end. I found his love and availability very attractive — something I never would have seen in my 20s and 30s.

Persons: —, I've, Lisa Wade's, haven't, Jennifer Douglas, Douglas, I'd Locations: perfectionism

☆ How brands like Ally and H&R Block are making reality TV-style shows to grab viewers
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-04 | by ( Lucia Moses | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

Advertisement"It felt like it was more authentic," Andrea Brimmer, chief marketing and PR officer of Ally Financial, parent of Ally Bank, said of the decision to use the reality format. In another recent example, H&R Block in February dropped "Responsibility Island," a limited series reality spoof based on the popular British reality dating show "Too Hot to Handle." "It is the perfect escape; reality TV is a genre that just delights them." Other brands like Neutrogena have lately co-opted the reality TV format for social media series. Advertisement"To do a purely entertainment reality series is something you don't see every day," said Zoe Fairbourn, head of strategic partnerships and branded entertainment at Hello Sunshine.

Persons: —, Emma Grede, Ashley Graham, Ally, Reese Witherspoon's, Andrea Brimmer, Andrew Brimmer, We've, it's, Jill Cress, Cress, Shopify, Zoe Fairbourn, Rick Parkhill, Block, Brimmer, Jill Kargman, Lara Spotts, It'll Organizations: Service, Ally Bank, Business, Ally Bank Brands, Procter, Gamble, Gen, National Geographic, Samsung, YouTube, Galaxy, Disney, Brand, Brands

☆ 6 signs your spouse is quiet-quitting your marriage, even if things feel fine
▼ + stars: | 2024-01-31 | by ( Julia Pugachevsky | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

It can be hard to tell if a partner is quiet-quitting if they're pleasant and easygoing. Some signs of quiet-quitting include avoiding arguments, intimacy, and spending time together. AdvertisementIn the same way a person can quiet-quit a job they hate but can't leave yet , they can also quiet-quit a relationship or marriage. AdvertisementDegges-White shared some common signs someone is quiet-quitting the relationship — whether they're fully conscious of it or not. They don't crave intimacy with youOne of the biggest signs of quiet-quitting a relationship is no longer desiring intimacy, Degges-White said.

Persons: —, Suzanne Degges, White, it's, They're, they're, isn't Organizations: Service, Northern Illinois University, Partners Locations: ghosting

☆ Haley fires at Trump attacks before New Hampshire primary
▼ + stars: | 2024-01-21 | by ( Rebecca Picciotto | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +2 min

Republican presidential candidate Nikki Haley has been throwing harder punches at GOP frontrunner Donald Trump, days before her make-or-break New Hampshire primary on Tuesday. The former U.N. ambassador on Sunday took shots at Trump's mental acuity, his cozy relations with foreign dictators and his position as an establishment figure. Haley took aim at Trump's mental fitness after footage from one of his rallies showed him attributing the Jan. 6 insurrection to Haley, repeating her name four times, apparently mistaking her for former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi. Dedicating her talking points to Trump attacks is a marked shift from Haley, who prior to the Iowa caucuses had primarily gone after Florida Gov. "If you want to talk about Trump, if you really want to talk about Trump, why don't you go ask him if he's gonna get on a debate stage?"

Persons: Nikki Haley, Donald Trump, Haley, Nancy Pelosi, bromance, Putin, Kim Jong, Ron DeSantis, Trump, he's Organizations: U.S, United, UN Security Council, White, Republican, Hampshire, Sunday, New, Trump, Florida Gov, DeSantis Locations: U.S, Washington , U.S, New Hampshire, Iowa, Florida

☆ 7 signs you grew up in a dysfunctional family, even if it looked perfect on the outside
▼ + stars: | 2024-01-10 | by ( Julia Pugachevsky | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

"Families send messages, implicitly and explicitly, about what's permissible and what's not permissible in a family system," Wright told Business Insider. For example, if you were raised by an overly critical parent , Wright said you can find it very difficult to "turn off those critical voices in your head." You struggle to regulate your emotionsEmotional dysregulation occurs when you can't access, name, and appropriately express your feelings, Wright said. You have an insecure attachment styleEven if you know your family is dysfunctional and you want to be the opposite, it's not so simple. The last three can be caused by growing up in a dysfunctional family.

Persons: —, Annie Wright, Wright, Jose Luis Pelaez, it's, fizkes, " Wright Organizations: Service, Business Locations: Berkeley , California

☆ From ‘menty b’ to ‘grippy socks,’ internet slang is taking over how we talk about mental health
▼ + stars: | 2023-11-30 | by ( Leah Asmelash | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +9 min

But for Dr. Nicholas Westers, a clinical psychologist at Children’s Medical Center Dallas, simply talking about mental health isn’t always a good thing. But she has been diagnosed with depression and anxiety, Nelson told CNN, and has had her share of mental health struggles. “Mental health is part of your physical health, and I think the internet, social media, has definitely played a part in that (association),” she said. Acknowledging what they’re experiencing may even help people actually address their mental health and seek the help they need. Making a quip like “I’m going to kill myself” when feeling down or “I’m so OCD” when you just like organization can also create stigmatization around mental health, Westers said.

Persons: Natalie Williams, wasn’t, ” Williams, ’, Williams didn’t, Williams, Prosper, “, Dr, Nicholas Westers, isn’t, Erikka Nelson, Nelson, ”, it’s, ’ ” Nelson, Westers, hasn’t, ‘, ” Westers, ” There’s, ’ ” Williams Organizations: CNN, Twitter, Children’s Medical Center Dallas, Lifeline Locations: Philadelphia, Nelson, New York, United States

☆ For days Sam Bankman-Fried, the MIT grad who founded FTX, repeatedly told a jury he couldn't remember actions from his time as CEO
▼ + stars: | 2023-10-31 | by ( Katie Balevic | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +9 min

It was during those hours of questioning that Bankman-Fried repeatedly said he couldn't recall specific details from his time as CEO of FTX, his now-defunct cryptocurrency exchange. Asked whether his support for regulation in the crypto industry was contingent upon protecting customers, Bankman-Fried testified Monday: "I don't recall that specifically, no." He similarly struggled to recall whether he ever mentioned to the public that while trading on FTX, Alameda didn't play by the same rules as other customers. AdvertisementAdvertisementBankman-Fried's instructions as CEO were just 'suggestions'Chelsea Jia Feng/InsiderBankman-Fried insisted on the stand that he didn't recall making various instructions to his employees, especially those like Ellison, Gary Wang, and Nishad Singh. Asked if he instructed Ellison to purchase cryptocurrencies in her capacity as co-CEO of Alameda, Bankman-Fried was vague, saying, "I don't recall an instance.

Persons: Sam Bankman, Lewis Kaplan, —, Fried, Danielle Sassoon, FTX, SBF, FTX's, Judge Lewis Kaplan, Caroline Ellison, Eduardo Munoz Alvarez, Sam Trabucco, beholden, Sassoon, Chelsea Jia Feng, Ellison, Gary Wang, Nishad Singh, I'm, Jane Rosenberg, Gary, Nishad, Ryan Salame, it's, Mark Cohen, Judge Kaplan Organizations: Service, Alameda Research, Alameda, REUTERS Locations: Bankman, Manhattan, Alameda, FTX

☆ The One Without Matthew Perry
▼ + stars: | 2023-10-29 | by ( Alexis Soloski | More About Alexis Soloski | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +2 min

A professional actor since his teens, Perry had appeared in more than a dozen sitcoms before landing “Friends” in 1994. Mostly it advertised Perry and his anxious, reckless charm. Even among the irrepressible talents of his co-stars, Perry stood out, for a rubbery, heedless way with physical comedy and a split-second timing that most stopwatches would envy. He had both an absolute commitment to what a line required and a way of gently ironizing that line. Perry was in on those same jokes.

Persons: Matthew Perry, Perry, Chandler Bing, ” Perry Organizations: NBC, “

☆ Charlie Munger trashed crypto, warned AI hype seems overblown, and talked poker and donuts at a private event. Here's an inside look at his Zoomtopia keynote.
▼ + stars: | 2023-10-11 | by ( Theron Mohamed | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

Charlie Munger panned crypto, warned about AI hype, and trumpeted Zoom at Zoomtopia last week. NEW LOOK Sign up to get the inside scoop on today’s biggest stories in markets, tech, and business — delivered daily. AdvertisementAdvertisementCharlie Munger trashed cryptocurrencies, warned the AI buzz seems overblown, and praised Zoom for keeping him connected during his closing keynote at Zoomtopia on October 4. Craig Durr, research director at The Futurum Group:"Munger shared his seasoned perspective on crypto and AI – both of which he was skeptical about. He said communications help drive business, and business success is about focus and consistency.

Persons: Charlie Munger, Warren Buffett's, —, Eric Yuan, hasn't, Zoom, Tobi Tungl, Craig Durr, Munger, Eric Yuen, Mark Friedler, Warren Buffett, Eric Kunnen, Charlie, Melody Brue, doesn't, Eric, David Maldow Organizations: Service, Berkshire Hathaway's, CTI, Grand Valley State University, Moor Locations: Zoomtopia, cryptocurrencies, Grand

☆ Brands pouring money into film and TV content are the latest to demand more data sharing from streamers
▼ + stars: | 2023-09-05 | by ( Lucia Moses | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

They're pouring more money into Hollywood-style entertainment but want streamers to share more data. An industry effort is underway to standardize measurement of brand films. Brands are joining the chorus of content producers and creators demanding more audience data from Hollywood entertainment giants. Without transparency from the streamers, brands and their agencies rely on other measurements, some quantitative, some qualitative — typically a mix of things like critical reviews, social chatter, earned media, and sentiment. Most streamers don't show viewership data, so "you never really know how many people saw it," said Marc Gilbar, who leads Imagine's brands division.

Persons: Saint Laurent, who've, Gamble —, Brian Newman, REI, Hulu doesn't, Kyra Sedgwick, Paolo Mottola, Mottola, Megan Wells, who's, Ron Howard, Brian Grazer's, Marc Gilbar, Kimberly Doebereiner, Doebereiner Organizations: Hollywood, Brands, Pepsi, Companies, Procter, HBO, Unilever, Netflix, Hulu, Sundance Film, Brand Storytelling, G Studios Locations: Hollywood

☆ Patrol dogs are terrorizing and mauling prisoners inside the United States
▼ + stars: | 2023-07-23 | by ( Hannah Beckler | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +64 min

But prison patrol dogs aren't deployed for chases; they are used inside the prison walls. Tri-State Canines training facility, Warren, OhioVirginia Department of Corrections patrol dogs are typically Belgian Malinois, Czech shepherds, or German shepherds. Department patrol dogs are trained to bite once and hold to minimize flesh tears and lacerations. Patrol dog kennels, Virginia Department of CorrectionsThe patrol dog kennels are even smaller, at 6 feet by 10. A veterinary technician who treated patrol dogs at a clinic in Lebanon, Virginia, said she was told not to touch the patrol dogs in her care without their handler present.

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☆ It's not just 'Barbie' — as Hollywood goes through upheaval, brands from Nike to John Deere are becoming the new financiers of film and TV
▼ + stars: | 2023-07-20 | by ( Lucia Moses | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

As studios cut spending and strikes shut down production, Hollywood can take some solace — brands are coming to the rescue. Brand Storytelling is an organization that's held a festival for brand content alongside the Sundance Film Festival for the past seven years. Brand film submissions have almost tripled to 160 in the past three years, according to Rick Parkhill, director and co-founder of Brand Storytelling. "Film directors need the work," said Marcus Peterzell, who left ad giant Omnicom to found Passion Point Collective, a brand film studio, in 2019. He's since made some 36 film projects for brands.

Persons: Greta Gerwig, Kyra Sedgwick, John Deere, Kimberly Doebereiner, Chris Paul, Mattel's Robbie Brenner, There's, Jill Lubochinski, Holly Fraser, WePresent, Ron Howard, Brian Grazer's, Reese Witherspoon's, Michael Sugar's Sugar23, we've, Marc Gilbar, Matt Damon, Ben Affleck, Gilbar, that's, Rick Parkhill, Riz Ahmed, WeTransfer, Vicky Grout, Parkill, Saint Laurent, Pedro Almodóvar, David Cronenberg, They're, Marcus Peterzell, Peterzell Organizations: Hollywood, Mattel, Nike, HBO, Procter & Gamble, Tide, Gillette, G Studios, Warner Bros, Discovery, PepsiCo, REI, Dallas Buyers, Sundance, Brand, Brands Locations: —, HBO's, Hollywood

☆ Uncoordinated? You Can Still Be an Athlete.
▼ + stars: | 2023-07-06 | by ( Jenny Marder | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

As more athletic girls slammed volleyballs across the net, she worried about tripping or being hit by a ball. In order to avoid playing, she often sat on the sidelines and acted as the announcer. For years after, she told herself she was simply too clumsy for ball games. But a year ago, Ms. Chavez, now 26, began playing basketball with a friend and discovered she’s pretty good at shooting and dribbling. “Being afraid, being avoidant, did me more harm than good,” said Ms. Chavez, who said she still is so clumsy that she has the occasional accident.

Persons: Carmen Chavez, Chavez, ”, “ I’m, Jill Zwicker Organizations: University of British Locations: University of British Columbia

☆ Brands like Sony and Chipotle want to make Hollywood-style content for film and TV, and these advertising pioneers have built a startup to get their messages out
▼ + stars: | 2023-06-11 | by ( Lucia Moses | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

That belief has taken him from famed ad agency Wieden + Kennedy to talent agency CAA, where he set up its first marketing consultancy. The firm pitches itself as part management consultancy, part brand entertainment production company, and part consumer brand accelerator. "If a great sports movie happens to come from Nike, it's still great entertainment," Goodman said. "If a great sports movie happens to come from Nike, it's still great entertainment," Goodman said. One thing Goodman and Kaplan are not trying to do is compete with brands' ad agency budgets.

Persons: Jae Goodman, John Kaplan, It's, Gibson, Kennedy, Goodman, Chipotle, Stephanie Perdue, Jay, Kaplan, —, Michael Kassan's, Anheuser, it's, Superconnector, it'll Organizations: Superconnector Studios, Sony, CAA, Observatory, Entertainment, Hollywood, HBO Max, Netflix, Procter & Gamble, Imagine Entertainment, Delirio Studios, MTV Documentary, Paramount, HBO, Apple, Management, Sony Pictures Television, McKinsey, Accenture —, Anheuser Busch, InBev, Gibson, Nike, Talent Locations: LA

It's important to understand your money story — the beliefs you have about how you get and spend money. "Emotions can cause and contribute to how you spend money, and vice versa, how we spend can cause and contribute to our emotional state being affected. Financial literacy isn't enough to solve many problems »Audit your emotions — and consider a journalTo get in touch with your emotions around money, keep track of them, suggests Wamala. "Ignoring your emotions keeps you in the dark when it comes to how and why you spend money," she says. "Rather than demonizing our money-related emotions, it's a much more empathic and sustainable approach to get curious about your emotions."

☆ What Your Therapist Doesn't Tell You
▼ + stars: | 2023-05-17 | by ( Amy X. Wang | Illustrations Liana Finck | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +8 min

What Your Therapist Doesn’t Tell You A dozen counselors on what it’s really like to sit in the other armchair. “ ‘I need to pee so bad.’ Clients don’t realize that we have five minutes between sessions and sometimes making it to the bathroom is not possible.” — Jessa White, L.M.H.C.A. You can’t do psychotherapy if a person doesn’t feel safe — there’s no way that’s going to happen. But it’s frustrating too, because as a therapist, you feel you can’t really offer what you signed up for.” — Gabriela Sehinkman, Ph.D., L.I.S.W.-S. To me, therapy is very much like dating, except, you know, obviously you don’t really want to date the person.” — Thien Pham, L.M.F.T.

☆ How to raise kids to have a ‘secure’ attachment style: 'It's not about being a perfect parent,' says BetterHelp therapist
▼ + stars: | 2023-04-29 | by ( Aditi Shrikant | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +2 min

It's rare to have a conversation about dating lately without someone mentioning attachment theory. Attachment theory defines four different attachment styles which offer insight into how and why we form bonds. And while no attachment style is better than another — "I don't think people with an insecure attachment style should get a bad rep," Amir Levine, the co-author of "Attached" told CNBC Make It last year — it would be reasonable to want your children to lean toward a secure attachment style. "Adults who have secure attachment styles generally can depend on their parents," Jo says. Here's how to raise a child with a secure attachment style.

☆ Couples Therapist, Heal Thyself
▼ + stars: | 2023-04-21 | by ( Tonya Lester | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

Sometimes the other person won’t like what you’re saying and that’s OK; it’s just part of being in a relationship. My friends, and sometimes friends of friends, ask me for advice on how to say hard things and how to initiate painful conversations. They tell me, “You’re really good at this.” And for other people, I am. Secretive and resentful, I stopped talking to my husband about what was going on with me beyond the bare minimum. There were plenty of other things to talk about — our teenagers, his job, the news — but I had stopped sharing anything about myself.

☆ To improve your finances, learn your 'money script,' psychologist says
▼ + stars: | 2023-04-11 | by ( Annie Nova | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +2 min

"We call that, in our research, 'money scripts.'" Money scripts, from avoidance to vigilanceIn Klontz's research, he's found that there are generally four different money scripts: "money avoidance," "money worship," "money status" and " "money vigilance." On the other end of the spectrum, money worshippers believe wealth is the key to solving all their problems and finding happiness. Money worshippers tend to spend too much, he added, overestimating the sense of satisfaction and meaning they'll get from buying things. Money status seekers, Klontz said, often conflate their net worth with their self worth.

☆ Anheuser-Busch is launching an entertainment division with help from Oscar-winning producer Michael Sugar in a push to reach consumers who don't watch ads
▼ + stars: | 2023-03-22 | by ( Lucia Moses | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

Anheuser-Busch is building an entertainment division, Insider has learned, the latest big marketer to turn to Hollywood to reach consumers who are increasingly glued to ad-free streaming services. The AB InBev effort is under a new, unannounced entity called draftLine Entertainment, a part of its internal ad agency, draftLine. DraftLine Entertainment is being run by AB InBev marketer Lauren Denowitz as global studio head, reporting to VP Fábio Baracho. The world's biggest brewer, AB InBev is well known for its marketing. In the case of AB InBev, entertainment is a way to promote the beer category at large over any individual brand.

☆ 10 ways to stop self-sabotaging behaviors that cost you time, money, and happiness
▼ + stars: | 2023-02-21 | by ( John Rampton | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +20 min

Self-sabotage habits aren't easy to avoid, but they're essential to growing up healthy. However, identifying negative habits needs to be a priority. What causes self-sabotaging behavior? We may even model negative habits.. Self-sabotage can be influenced by growing up in a dysfunctional family. Make a plan — then follow throughYou'll need to come up with a plan for how you'll break negative behavior patterns.

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